One of the nice things about working in such an international work environment, is that you come in contact with a lot of different people from different backgrounds. Just in my room alone there are people from Iran, Germany, China and Poland (I'm the only Dutch girl!). One of the sadder things is that there are constantly people leaving, which was the case last Friday. An MD student who had been with us for a couple of weeks went home to his native country in Chili, so we decided to go for a small goodbye dinner on Thursday. Although he didn't stay here long, we got to know each other pretty good, especially because he was such a nice and chatty guy! As we would say in Dutch, he could "talk the ears of your head". But in a good way of course ;) I find that after my trip abroad to Oxford I can relate to people coming from abroad a lot more. I have more understanding and sympathy for the journey they've made and the vulnerability most feel when coming to a foreign work place. Because not only is this work hard in general, it's even harder when communicating in a second language, in a foreign country and in a foreign culture. I will never forget the loneliness and misery I first felt when I arrived in Oxford and nobody took me in, and I would never want that for anyone visiting my current lab. Of course it helped that our visiting friend was nowhere near shy and would talk for hours if he got the chance. So even after three weeks he had made friends with almost anyone in the lab, and a dinner felt like the only appropriate way to goodbye.
As I'm no where near familiar with the city, the German friend brought us to bar and cafe de
Eerste Kamer, which translates to 'the First Chamber', a reference to the Dutch Senate. Luckily we were able to confiscate a table without making a reservation, and ward off a drunk guy who had decided to join our conversation (who was later thrown out the bar by the way). We had a wonderful time discussing our home countries, politics, religion and even childhood cartoons, but the food was a bit disappointing to my taste (the portion size was rather small, and I'm not even a big eater). I honestly had a wonderful time though and I think everyone else had too, judging by the time we left!
p.s. I know the guy in the back may look evil, but he's very harmless, I promise!